Chapter 67
“It’s already much better, her mental condition has been very different from before for a while now, I went to see her a few days ago, and the doctor even said that maybe it won’t be long before she’s cured!”
Xu Juan’s condition is by far the thing Lin still cares about the most, so as soon as Huo Jinlin mentions this, Lin still looks radiant and her expression is much more subdued.
“Well, let’s take some time some other day and we’ll go see her together, I haven’t been there for a long time on my previous business trip, I’m afraid she’ll misunderstand.”
It must be said that in these aspects Huo Jinlin has always considered more thoroughly than a girl like her, and it’s no wonder Xu Juan likes him so much.
“Good, thank you, Huo Jinlin.”
Huo Jinlin hooked his lips, what he wanted wasn’t a thank you from her, if it wasn’t for Song YuNian’s reminder, he still hadn’t found the right way to get along!
He pretended as if nothing had happened and circled the topic back to the two children, saying, “It’s fine, I still have to thank you for helping me educate the two children so well!”
Since Lin still moved into the villa, she had personally taken care of the children’s daily living, and it had to be said that during this period of time, the changes in the two children were obvious, they were both more polite and clean, and this was really due to her.
“Where,” Lin still said modestly, “This is all the result of our joint efforts.”
“But I think you should make a change, your work is too busy, the time you spend with your children is too little, and the lack of fatherly love is also a major regret in growing up.”
On weekdays, Huo Jinlin goes out early and comes back late, sometimes the kids don’t see him for almost a week, perhaps this was their previous mode of getting along, but since Lin still came, she can always see the children’s faces envious of other people having a father to accompany them.
This point Huo Jinlin also does not deny, tone mixed with a few points of guilt: “I know, in the future will take more time to accompany them, but I always think, are boys, afraid not to raise too delicate it!”
Like when he was a child, Huo Nantian was often busy flying south and north of the sky, Huo Jinlin almost rarely saw him, that time, although there was also a complaint in his heart, but his character in turn is more and more independent and stable, so Huo Jinlin did not feel that this is anything wrong.
Lin still can’t help but reward him with a blank stare, could it be that he doesn’t understand the reasoning behind what you don’t want others to do to you?
“Now they belong to the childhood stage, it is the key period of character development, the role of parents is indispensable, how does it become a spoiled child?”
The two men grew up in different environments, and the differences that exist in this aspect of educating and nurturing children are huge, Lin still helplessly discusses the direction of nurturing these two children in the future with him, only to realize that the two men’s ideas are worlds apart.
Huo Jinlin firmly believes that his idea is correct: “Most families nowadays are adopting this kind of free-range education, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with this ah, in the future the child can grow up to choose what he likes according to his own interests, isn’t that good?”
“But the child is so young he has no ability to judge ah, how does he know what is right for him, now this time the parents do not make choices for him, do you want to wait until he is out of the community in the future when there is no ability to survive to blame the parents did not educate him well?”
“How?” Huo Jinlin’s voice carried obvious disdain, “A child of my Huo family would never go this far.”
His words left Lin still completely speechless, not knowing how this topic should continue, he hastily said a few words and went upstairs.
Obviously this chat still ended with Lin still being unpleasant, the next day Lin still went to visit Xu Juan alone and was suddenly asked about Huo Jinlin.
“He hasn’t even been here for a long time, you guys really didn’t have a fight?”
Lin still came alone during this time, and didn’t seem too happy every time she came, which is why Xu Juan had this doubt in her mind.
Lin still does not want her to make such a vague guess, she took a deep breath and shook her head, “No, a while ago he really just traveled!”
Xu Juan was a bit tired after sitting for a long time, and leaned back by putting a pillow behind her, which made her waist feel a bit more comfortable.
“Still, mom always feels that you’re not happy during this period of time, what’s going on?”
The two are mother and daughter in the end, just by looking at her behavior Xu Juan knows that she’s not happy in the Huo family.
“Mom,” Lin still red-eyed, for the first time, she mustered up the courage to tell Xu Juan her inner thoughts, “The gap between me and Huo Jinlin is too big, in many ways we have differences, I want to …… divorce him .”
This is said out, Lin still do not dare to look at Xu Juan, always feel that I do not know how to face her, originally did not want to let her worry, but in addition to her, Lin still really do not know who to complain to.
Xu Juan didn’t get angry after hearing this, she was still looking at her with a smile on her face, and her eyes were full of heartache.
“Still, you’re still young, sometimes when you make some decisions it’s inevitable to be impulsive and ill-considered, mom seems to think that Huo Jinlin is a good man, but mom, can only suggest for you, ultimately the person who lives the life is still yourself.”
Lin still knows that Huo Jinlin is very good, so many women are drooling over him, and she admits that when she saw Zhou Nuan who could compete with Huo Jinlin in the company that day, Lin still has a few moments of panic until now.
“Mom, it’s true that he’ll still meet many more girls around him who are better than me, and it’s like I’m on cloud nine with them, and since Huo Jinlin’s father didn’t accept me in the first place, I don’t want to watch them fall out between father and son.”
She grew up with this kind of character that would rather suffer losses herself and make others happy, Xu Juan has always been afraid that she would suffer losses, and as expected even now she still thinks about others in every way and doesn’t care about herself at all.
“Still, you actually also have a lot of other people’s incomparable advantages, maybe others are also envious of you, so you should not be their own disadvantages to compare with others, you should be good at discovering the advantages of their own body, learn to appreciate and love themselves.”
Lin still smiled bitterly, “Where do I have any advantages, if I really have advantages, how could others not see them, and why would Huo Jinlin’s father ostracize me so much?”
Her expression darkened for a few moments, “And don’t you know, last time, for the sake of our matter, not only did Huo Jinlin have a huge fight with his father, even his mother had a huge fight with his father.”
Xu Juan sighed heavily, “And marriage is a process where two people have to support each other, if Huo Jinlin is willing to fight against his father for you, then you should more than likely let go of the inferiority complex in your own heart and bravely stand by his side to support him.”