Chapter 512: Family
Miyazaki Ryui felt a little awkward about the current atmosphere and excused himself to go out to use the restroom. He didn’t go out far before he ran into Masayoshi Kishimoto, who had also come here for dinner, head-on.
“What a coincidence.” Masayoshi Kishimoto blurted out.
“Boss, I’m falling apart. I’m not talking about work, but personal feelings.” Miyazaki Ryui said with a bitter look on his face.
Immediately, Masayoshi Kishimoto took on the role of a knowing big brother, and with his right hand facing to the side of the secluded area, he said, “Tell me about it.”
Miyazaki Ryuui along with him to a secluded place after, and then one by one to the old family came to the person, and at the same time in a private room inside the matter is originally told his own this one is both the boss, but also a friend of the man.
“I know, the person you like in your heart should be that night we work in the izakaya that woman. There is nothing more fortunate for a person than to find someone you love her and she loves you back.
The next best thing, which is the realistic choice for most people, is to find someone with good stability. That stability is based on a certain material foundation.
The problem you’re facing falls into the third category, whether to choose love, or affection? If you are bent on having to marry the woman you have fallen in love with, it is tantamount to slapping your mother in the face.
The relationship between your mother and son will inevitably be fractured as a result. Not to mention the fact that your two younger sisters and other relatives will have a negative view of you.
Can you bear the cost of such a choice? Don’t forget that we are venture capitalists. Venture capital is not only about return, but also about risk control.
If the risk is too high, the investment will be terminated or a stop-loss operation will be carried out.” Masayoshi Kishimoto as a passer-by is eloquent at the same time, but also well aware of the different customs in various parts of Japan.
Aomori Prefecture is not Tokyo. The people of this small, remote area have a non-open mindset, just like the people of Shikoku Kochi Prefecture.
Arranged marriages are highly valued, not only for their personal honor and reputation, but also for the honor and reputation of the family.
As the saying goes, marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, or even a difficult matter for two clans.
Seeing that he was deep in thought and did not make a sound, Masayoshi Kishimoto added: “How does the woman who will marry you look like? How is her character? Is the family lineage clean?”
“She is still quite clean-looking. Back home in Aomori, she was an elementary school Mandarin teacher, and she has a gentle personality. There’s no mistake about her family’s innocence, after all, she’s the daughter of my aunt and uncle’s sister.” Miyazaki Ryui said truthfully.
“Since she’s not ugly, has a gentle personality, and is the daughter of a good family with an unmistakable clean lineage, what are you not happy about?” Justice Kishimoto laughed a little and said.
“I don’t have that kind of heartwarming feeling with her at all.” Miyazaki Ryui blurted out.
“How old are you? Do you still think you’re in your late teens, early twenties? You are now an adult who has officially stepped into society long ago.
Society is cruel and realistic, and if your personal backyard is unstable, you won’t even feel at ease at work. Feelings of this one thing can be slowly cultivated.
Two people spend time together for a long time, it is inevitable that they will fall in love with each other over time. As for love, an invisible and intangible thing, it’s gone when you say it’s gone.
I still say that we are venture capitalists, it is imperative that we have the necessary risk management for what we are about to make an investment in, and what we are investing in.
The most immediate benefit of you marrying that woman that your family loves is that they are happy. You will have a heartfelt moment for that woman sooner or later. Even if you don’t have a heartwarming moment, it’s not much of a loss.
Conversely, the immediate downside is that your family is unhappy. You’ll be stuck in the middle. What’s more, you don’t dare to absolutely guarantee that you and your favorite person will be able to live happily for the rest of your life.
Family can be a lifetime. Over time, the feelings between men and women tend to fade. Besides, it’s not like it’s impossible to get that one woman you like to be an underground lover for you.”
Masayoshi Kishimoto put himself in his shoes. He and Rie Sakai were not only an ‘arranged marriage’, but they had gone from no feelings to feelings.
Miyazaki Ryui still didn’t feel much relief in his heart and said with a sad face, “That’s true. Doing it is another matter.”
“Your character is just prone to taking the bull by the horns. In the beginning, when you wanted to commit suicide, you were also like this, always failing to see around.
Did you and the person you married ever get along and talk properly? Since you didn’t, how did you decide that the other person was not suitable? You arbitrarily decided that you wouldn’t like her yourself.
The threshold that you can’t cross in your heart is the feeling that you belong to the category of being forced to accept the marriage partner arranged by her, instead of free love.
Look at me, is it possible that my marriage partner is a woman of my own choosing? It’s still not the same as you are at the moment, it’s all part of an arranged marriage.” Justice Kishimoto calmly said.
Miyazaki Ryui then realized, “I can spend more time with my own marriage partner first, chatting more, after all, I’m not getting married right away.”
“That’s right! In the process of you getting along well, it’s not unlikely that you’ll find her sparkling points. If you then share the same interests, that would be really great. It’s people’s first marriages that are seen as important.
Even in the worst case scenario, you can still get divorced in the future. You won’t suffer any opposition from your own family if you get together with that one former first girlfriend of yours.” Masayoshi Kishimoto said nonchalantly.
“It’s true that it’s better to talk to someone you trust so that you won’t be blinded by a single leaf.” Miyazaki Ryui did not fail to feel that he had a point.
If he himself had to insist on marrying Matsui Natsuki, then his family would surely be unanimously against it. It was not likely that they would even gather a crowd and run to the Matsui family to argue.
According to the rules of their hometown, they would only think that the Matsui family was at fault first, not that their family was being unreasonable. He had not failed to cause trouble for Matsui Natsuki and the Matsui family.
The Matsui family would have left a not-so-good impression on the neighborhood around their old home. Adding to that, the Matsui family was originally an outsider, which would inevitably further exacerbate the level of hostility.
“We’ve been out for so long as well. Go back to your respective homes!” Masayoshi Kishimoto said decisively.
Miyazaki Ryui responded with a “yes”, and then walked a short distance with the other party before separating to go back to their respective private rooms.
“Brother, what took you so long to come back? I thought you fell into the toilet and got flushed away!” Miyazaki’s little sister said with a playful smile.
“Are you disappointed that I didn’t get flushed away?” Miyazaki Ryui chuckled.
“Not at all! You really would have been flushed away by the water inside the toilet. Then in the future, who’s going to give me my allowance?” Miyazaki-chan said with an unchanging smile.