Chapter 416: Classes

Jiang Tao’s proposal was successful, so Xue Jing and the others were very happy, excitedly caught Zi Shan questioning the details of the proposal, every detail is not spared, because there is An Ping, the lawyer, so even if Zi Shan wanted to hide something not to say it is impossible, she can always find a little bit of Zi Shan’s words in what she said.

Bombarded by her friends, Zi Shan had to tell everything, but Chu Xiang and Anping listened to the hot eyes up, even if so and so Jing also went home and twisted the fat man a few times, blaming him for not being as heartfelt as Jiang Tao when he proposed – so recently Jiang Tao’s life is not very good, and every day have to deal with Shen Yang and fat man’s oppression.

However, Zishan and Jiang Tao is not in a hurry to get married, even if it is the engagement ceremony was also arranged by them in a month’s time – recently the farm food is busy, Zishan did not have time to point out the engagement, the marriage, and then the baby knows the Feng Dayong wedding things, the mood is very bad also let Jiang Tao and Zishan heartache, and even more have no heart to arrange for the engagement! The thing of the matter.

The time announced in the newspaper and the final agreed time is different – all kinds of things happen, Zishan and Jiang Tao’s engagement date is pushed back again and again, because the two do not have any relatives elders to invite, but also do not have to explain what, but also really save trouble.

May be Jiang Tao proposal to stimulate, Shen Yang actually also proposed to Chu Xiang, although the process of some twists and turns – not Chu Xiang is not willing to, is Shen Yang’s arrangements made a mistake, arranged a magic ring link, actually turned out to be a big beauty of a thousand charming.

Really enough to make Chu Xiang surprise, almost because too much surprise, and give Shen Yang a slap. Zishan and the others were still happy for Chu Xiang and Shen Yang, especially seeing Chu Xiang’s happy appearance, everyone believed that this would also be a happy couple.

Only and Zishan, Jiang Tao and their respective simple to the extreme family relationship is different, Chu Xiang and Shen Yang’s respective families have a little bit of complexity – Chu Xiang’s family is needless to say, Shen Yang’s side can be a bit of a problem, in addition to Shen Bo has no opinion of Chu Xiang, very much like Dabao outside, Yang Guoying and Shen Zhi’s attitude is too difficult to say.

Zishan sighed: “Chu Xiang, have you discussed how Shen Yang’s parents’ side is doing?” She was happy for her best friend, but the actual problem could not be tossed aside and ignored, and it could be treated as if it didn’t exist. The other issues were fine, but the matter of the parents wasn’t that simple.

When they first entered society, they would all think that marriage was a matter for two people, as long as the two of them loved each other then everything would be ok no problem, the truth was that two people getting married in this country was definitely not a matter for two people, and the situation would become hard to say especially if parents were involved.

Whether it is the parents of the man or the woman, as long as they do not agree that the problem is really big – you just want to get married, the freedom of marriage under the law? OK, indeed there is nothing to prevent you from getting a marriage license, but marriage is not just a license, there is a lot to learn.

Take the opinion of the parents, their relationship with their children is impossible to cut off, if they just do not agree, just look at their own children choose the other half of the eye, then how to get along in the future life? You can’t say I’m never going to pay attention to them, can you? They are the parents of your life partner, and it’s your sweetheart who will suffer if you don’t get along with them.

What kind of hurt will it be if it builds up over the years? Can you be sure that your sweetheart won’t grow resentful of you or wear out your relationship because of the cracks in your life? Or that you will be able to move them to accept you – that’s a lot of aggravation, probably more than a little, probably a lot and for a long time.

Even if you can handle it, can you really balance it out mentally? You have to work very hard to get a smile from someone else, and the relationship that you end up forming is really the kind of equal, loving relationship that you think it is? One party is aggrieved by the formation of the relationship, even if the other party is touched, but also the formation of a kind of class layer – intangible things, you can not even say clearly.

Over the years, are you sure you don’t have complaints? If you have complaints, will your partner get tired of hearing them? That was someone’s parents!

Therefore, Zi Shan was very worried for Chu Xiang because it was simply impossible for Shen Zhi and Yang Guoying to accept her, and this lack of acceptance was not due to any misunderstanding of Chu Xiang or due to a lack of understanding, but rather because they couldn’t accept Chu Xiang for who she was now – a fact that was impossible to change.

Chuxiang even if you try and what’s the use of it, and Shen Zhi and Yang Guoying that kind of person can not be touched, even if it is touched, in the hearts of such two people, the status of Chu Xiang is definitely not their daughter-in-law so simple, that will be a combination of many other things within the identity.

And possibly, Shen Zhi and Yang Guoying will have that kind of condescending “pity” for Chu Xiang – we accept that you are the Shen family’s daughter-in-law is grace, what else do you want? Don’t think that this will not happen, it is very likely to produce the result, although, Chu Xiang is Shen Yang’s wife’s status is taken for granted after their marriage.

Chu Xiang is a little worried: “Shen Yang said, in order to show respect for his parents, as well as respect for me, he will take me to see his parents, as for whether they like me, accept me or not he doesn’t care – if not, just don’t see them in the future. I always feel a little, a little ……”

“A little worried aren’t you?” Zishan and Anping both sat over, “I know, we are not little girls anymore, after experiencing a lot of course know that many things can not be simply regarded, can be completely resolved, no matter what Shen Yang said, that is also Shen Yang’s parents, your future in-laws.”

Sigh, holding Chu Xiang’s words Zishan looked at her, “This is the reason you hesitated for a few days, right? What are your thoughts now? Your pair of in-laws are truly the best in the world.”

Chu Xiang looked up, “I don’t know, I’m really worried, sometimes I also think what if I don’t get through another bad divorce, it’s better to break up now, but, Shen Yang treats us mother and son really well.”

Xue Jing inclined his head: “Break up do not need it?”

Zishan looked at her and shook her head, “You go and meet them first, if they are really unkind, it’s up to Shen Yang, he has to know that it’s his parents who don’t agree that they can’t look at you, not you who have a problem with his parents, in the future, if his parents say anything to him about what you aren’t, please ask him to remember that.”

Anping sighed: “Which will be so simple, if life is really so simple it would be good, things ah, always in some trivial things to wear and tear completely change the mold. I think it’s better not to get married until Shen Yang’s parents agree, just drag it out.”

Zishan’s eyes lit up, “Good idea, Anping!” She slapped her palm on Anping’s shoulder, “It’s the word procrastinate, anyway, the one who’s in a hurry to get married isn’t you, Chu Xiang, right? If you and Shen Yang are in love with each other, then you can live together, but just don’t get married, well, first of all, you have to make it clear to Shen Yang, if he doesn’t agree, why don’t you break up now, it’s also better than the two of you becoming enemies again in the future.”

Chu Xiang’s eyes have spirit: “Let him come to live in our house?”

“What’s in that? Anyway, that Shen Yang kid can’t make any waves, if he likes those big girls outside he won’t look at you as a little daughter-in-law, plus if he really changes his mind, it’s still a good thing that you don’t get married to him, think of it as a test for him.” Xiao Jing threw a blank stare over, “We are not big girls anymore, is that piece of paper really that important?”

Zishan said lightly, “It’s only important to the man, not to us, it’s the man giving us the highest promise, the greatest responsibility, willing to tie his whole life to us – if he doesn’t have that kind of sincerity, we really don’t have to live with him? ”

She looked around and swept her eyes over Fatty, “Look at the few of us, so what if we don’t have a man, our days can still be wonderful and happy, right?”

Fatty resisted: “Talking about the blow can be big ah, I am a five good youth.” But was Zi Shan several women together spit a few mouth.

Chu Xiang a hug Zishan Anping and so and so quiet: “There you are good, my heart stone finally landed, is not to meet Yang Guoying and Shen Zhi Well, and not have not seen, we are really not afraid to see.” A sentence let everyone happy straight, was Xue Jing scraped the face of several times.

“However, my family side ……” Chu Xiang’s gaze darkened: “Shen Yang said let me take him to sit and recognize the family, I, really don’t want to go.” She did not want to mention her family, because the indifference of her family after the divorce really broke her heart, although after the success of her career, her family also made a phone call from time to time, wanting to come over to see her but were all rejected by her.

She really doesn’t want to add flowers to her family if she doesn’t have any relatives to send charcoal on the snow – relatives, that’s not friends, that should be a person’s most solid backing.

Zishan was also a bit surprised: “What does Shen Yang mean?”

Jiang Tao, who hadn’t been speaking as if reading the newspaper, probed: “I agree with Shen Yang.”

“I also agree.” Fatty’s words were serious: “Just based on this, you women should have added five points to Shen Yang.”

Chu Xiang’s eyes red, inclined his head: “You are not aware of my family, at first even if there is a mouth to eat I will not go to jump off a building …… “Some things hurt like bone marrow, not to say forget can forget, especially the more close to the people of the harm, the more difficult to erase The first thing I want to say is that I’m not going to be able to get rid of it.

Zixan also some puzzled: “In fact, it does not matter whether to go?” Thinking of their parents, hugged Chu Xiang gently said: “We are your relatives, not sad. People, rely on themselves is the king, can have today we do not also did not rely on them?”

Jiang Tao and Fatty glanced at each other, “We, today, we will give you a lesson, so that you know what is called a man who really thinks for you.”