Chapter 417: The Back Road

“And lecturing, ha.” Xue Jing blankly glanced at Fatty: “It seems to be that you are eating too much meat, so fat that you are over wheezing on it, what lectures, what is in your stomach that I don’t know?”

Fatty looked at her, “When your parents did not agree with the two of us, they have been no good face to me, have to force you and break up not, you also and parents had a big fight ran out, have to say to me that the two go together.”

Anping and Chu Xiang looked over, “so and so quiet, you also did such a fierce thing ah? But look at your mom and dad treating the fat man like a son, really can’t see it.”

XJ rolled her eyes, “That was how many years ago, what’s the point of bringing that up? And you didn’t agree, and sent me back home – I brought out my account book ID card and all that for nothing, and brought all my money with me.”

The fat man looked down at his hands, “You know why I didn’t agree with you doing that? Yes, we can get a license, we can get married, we are not elopement, because the law has recognized us as husband and wife, but you do that will break your parents’ heart, in the future, even if they accept us, the thought of this will be a thorn in the heart, right?”

Jiang Tao put down the newspaper and walked to Zishan’s side and sat down: “Women and men are not the same, after marrying, there are two homes, one is the husband’s family and the other is the mother’s family, both homes are home, and the role of the mother’s family is the woman’s backing ah, just like the fat man said, you are so far away from breaking the heart of the parents, a few years without mother’s home, in case of a fight with the fat man and so on, where do you want to go where the tears are flowing? ”

“It’s very common for young couples to have a few quarrels, if you didn’t decide to leave with Fatty, you would naturally have parents to complain to, but once you leave, you have your own mother and father, but you can’t find a place to cry, how do you feel in your heart? It’s harder and sadder than arguing! And, it’s really not good if a woman doesn’t have a mother’s home.”

He looked to Xue Jing: “I first heard Fatty say this, but I think he was thinking about this before he sent you back, he wants you to live happily ever after, not just wanting to make himself happy, so this is a man’s responsibility, but also a man’s most basic love for women.”

“Who all have a temper, husband and wife life man can not be without fault, always want to let his wife in his angry and annoyed with the time, there can let her go to hide, right? Can let her get in addition to his people’s love and support, not too lonely. A mother’s home, that’s a woman’s backbone and a woman’s way back.”

He sighed, “You guys can gamble about breaking it off, but as a man who loves you, what he should do is to complement and reinforce that back road for you. If a man picks on your relationship with your parents, says bad things about them, doesn’t want you to socialize with them or something like that, that kind of man is the most unreliable, and even if his heart is true to you, he’s still the selfish kind.”

“He’s breaking your back, tying you to his crooked tree, and can do anything to you with impunity, because you have nothing else but him, he’s not doing it for you, he’s only doing it for himself.”

Jiang Tao looked at Chu Xiang: “Shen Yang did the right thing, even if your mother’s family is no longer right, it’s still your father and mother’s brothers and sisters, at least in front of the Shen family, they represent your mother’s family, that’s your support, and what he did, is to make sure that you can get a little bit more support, and to be your backbone.”

Zishan stroked her chin, “So that’s how it is. I haven’t been taken very seriously in the Feng family for so many years, so it’s because I don’t have a mother’s family. Hey, it makes sense, this lesson was worth it.”

Xue Jing glanced at Fatty and did not say anything, but her slightly red eyes already showed that she never thought that Fatty’s timidity was such a big deal back then, and for her sake, so she did not say anything even when she was aggrieved in front of her parents, and in the end, her father was only afraid that he also understood Fatty’s heart, and only then would he truly accept him.

Chu Xiang nodded, ”Well, I understand. But a family like that, hey. Forget it, Shen Yang wants to visit my house, I’d better take him back, just don’t be intimidated by our family.”

Anping looked over at her, “Don’t look to the bystanders to do what you expect them to do, instead you need to be strong and tell them what they should do and what they shouldn’t do, sometimes you being too weak is one of the reasons why the bystanders don’t dare to reach out to help. Don’t give them another chance to let themselves down again, understand?”

Chu Xiang nodded vigorously, “I understand. Well, in the next two days, I’ll take the time to go back and take a look, and it’s better to say things in the clear.” Her heart was full of happiness because of Shen Yang’s heart.

Zi Shan turned back to Jiang Tao, thinking of the respect he has always maintained for Yang Guoying, she also understood where his intentions lie, sometimes, it is not necessary to stand on the same position to be caring.

Shen Yang to Chu Xiang’s home things are still smooth, how to say Chu family people are a little guilty Chu Xiang, plus now Chu Xiang’s status position, have a room and money, the nature is not like the former as the mercy of others, naturally no one to do anything to make her unhappy.

But when it was Chu Xiang’s turn to meet Shen Yang’s mother, she was a little too scared to go, and found Zi Shan to get ideas, and eventually had to pull Zi Shan and Anping along to get some courage: “Of course it wasn’t scary when she was just Yang Guoying, but now that she’s Shen Yang’s mom, my future mother-in-law, my heart is in a state of flux when I think about it.”

Zi Shan and An Ping reluctantly agreed, but the meeting went much smoother than expected, Yang Guoying was very gentle, not because of Zi Shan’s presence, and she had a gift for Dabao – she expressed a bit of an opinion about Chu Xiang not bringing her child there.

As for Shen Yang and Chu Xiang’s marriage, she sighed, “I do disapprove of it, in every mother’s heart her son deserves to be loved by the best woman in the world, and this best woman almost doesn’t exist,” she laughed and spread her hands, “But in the end, it’s the person he’s going to live with for the rest of his life, I’ve already asked him to offered my opinion, and if he still insists, I can only show respect.”

She smiled at Chuxiang, “I’m not a good person to get along with, I guess, but I won’t be as difficult to get along with as you think, let’s all take our time and get used to it, you’re not the only one who has nerves and worries, I do as well – you’ll be my daughter-in-law from now on, one of the very important people in my older life. ”

This result greatly exceeded Zi Shan’s expectations, and for the first time, she noticed Yang Guoying’s transformation, even that face was not as noble and imposing as the first time she saw it – her whole person was much more amiable.

Originally Shen Yang and Chu Xiang most worried about the person is Yang Guoying, because she very clearly expressed her disagreement, the next two people are quite relaxed, because Shen Zhi on their things are still considered to agree, I believe that will not be because of his entanglement with the farm food and hold a grudge against Chu Xiang is right.

Yang Guoying also think Shen Zhi will not, because he is not so petty people, and in the business world for many years can not not know what is called lose and win? And juniors so serious about it will make a mockery of the world.

To see Shen Zhi time, Chu Xiang and Shen Yang rushed over early, and did not want Zi Shan and Anping to follow the courage to go, when the two people talk and laugh easily, because Shen Yang said he had already greeted his father at home today to wait for Chu Xiang to go over.

Zi Shan and they have nothing to worry about, I believe that Shen Zhi will not be in this matter to make things difficult for Chu Xiang, as Yang Guoying said this is Shen Yang’s choice, in addition to showing respect is to adapt to her son’s side of the extra companion.

At noon Zi Shan they ate the meal brought, the topic of course is Chu Xiang to meet the Shen family future father-in-law, said when she came back to how to make fun of, just when Anping said to let Chu Xiang on behalf of the farm food and its future father-in-law to see the high and low, Chu Xiang face frustrated pushed the door to come in, and Shen Yang is not behind her.

Zi Shan saw that her face did not look right and hurriedly greeted her, “What’s wrong?”

Chu Xiang shook her head: “His father said, absolutely will not agree with me and his things, and want us to swear since today to break up and never see each other again, especially me, have to make me swear with my son’s life to never see Shen Yang again – he wants is not Shen Yang’s oath, but mine. ”

Anping frowned: “The old man’s brain is sick – you swore no?”

“Of course not.” Chu Xiang threw the bag onto the table, “How could I be willing to take such an oath? Just after stating that it was more than just my choice to be with Shen Yang, I said my goodbyes and left, while Shen Yang and his father argued their case and stated that they would never separate from me.” She rubbed her forehead, “What a headache, I didn’t realize that he was even the stubborn one.”

The phone on the table suddenly came to life, Fatty answered it and looked up, “Shen Zhi, looking for Zi Shan.”

Zi Shan glared, “Looking for me for what?” But looking at Chu Xiang she still picked up the phone, “What is it that your old man wants?” The voice coming from the phone was Shen Yang’s fuzzy shout, “What are you looking for Zi Shan for, this matter has nothing to do with Zi Shan, I’m not spineless even if I’m close to Zi Shan, Dad, don’t you …… anymore.”

“Li Zishan, you took your wife and son away from my side, and married your own good friend and beloved to my son, letting her enter the Shen family, do you think I will let you have your wish?” Shen Zhi’s voice was a bit icy: “However, for the sake of my son I will of course have to make concessions, but the condition is that you leave Blue Water City and never see the face of any of us in the Shen family again.”

Zishan took away the microphone and looked at it with some tears and laughter, “What are you doing, threatening me with your son’s marriage? Old Mr. Shen do whatever you want, it’s none of my business.” After saying that she directly hung up the phone, she looked at Chu Xiang: “It seems that you can only live together with Shen Yang, the wedding matter will have to grind slowly.”

Chu Xiang shrugged her shoulders, “I’m not in a hurry to get married, anyway, Shen Yang and I have had preparations, the elders of both sides have also met, whether there is a license or not it doesn’t matter to us, I’m just waiting for old Mr. Shen to propose marriage, he doesn’t come and I won’t even marry, really.” She heard Shen Zhi’s words, she really didn’t know what to say to that kind of unreasonable request.